In the field of personal development and interpersonal dynamics, understanding the Enneagram can be an invaluable tool for coaches and therapists. The Enneagram, a model of the human psyche, categorizes personalities into nine distinct types. Among these, the assertive types – Type Three, Seven, and Eight – stand out for their energetic, powerful, and influential nature. This post aims to explore [...]

In a world that often feels like it's spinning faster with each passing day, the wisdom of Eckhart Tolle rings true: "Most people treat the present moment as if it were an obstacle that they need to overcome. Since the present moment is life itself, it is an insane way to live." This profound insight opens a gateway to understanding [...]

In the understanding of personality types, the Enneagram stands out as a unique tool, offering deep insights into human behavior and motivations. Particularly for coaches and therapists, understanding the nuances of the Enneagram can be instrumental in guiding clients towards self-awareness and growth. Today, we delve into the world of the Compliant types – Types One, Two, and Six – and [...]

In the journey of understanding human behavior and personality, the Enneagram stands out as a powerful tool providing an accurate unique perspective on personality. It offers a fascinating lens through which coaches and therapists can view their clients' coping strategies in times of stress, especially in social and interpersonal contexts. Let's dive into the unique world of the withdrawn types – [...]

In the whirlwind of life's challenges, it's easy to be swept away by the storm of fear and doubt. But there always is a light that is ever present shining through that we have access to - faith in oneself. Through my journey, marked by grief and confusion, I discovered the transformative power of replacing fear with faith. This blog post [...]

Creating a plan and following it is a fundamental step toward success, especially for small business owners. In this blog post, I will explore why a well-crafted plan is essential for anyone who runs a business. Every year I take time to reflect on my business for the current year and then create my vision and plan of action for [...]

As coaches, we often find ourselves in the eye of the information storm. The internet, a boundless ocean of knowledge, bombards us with enticing offers: 4-Day Challenges, Group Training, Accreditations, and DIY online programs. Events like Black Friday, Small Business Saturday, Extended Black Friday, and Cyber Monday add fuel to this frenzy, presenting us with a myriad of discounts and [...]

A Leap Across the Atlantic: My Story of Transformation In 2013, I made a pivotal decision that completely changed my life: I single-handedly uprooted from England, my birthplace, and relocated to the USA. I sold my house and car and let go of all my belongings except for what could fit into four suitcases and a laptop bag. On December [...]

In a world constantly chasing material gains and societal validation, it's easy to lose sight of what truly matters. Gratitude is often overlooked, as we are too busy moving on to the next thing in our fast-paced lives.Having gratitude is a powerful tool that can transform our everyday experiences into sources of joy and fulfillment. This blog post explores the essence [...]

Listen to the Episode: I'm super excited to share something a bit different with you this week. I recently had the incredible opportunity to be featured on Richard Taylor's podcast, "Always an ExPat," where I discussed a pivotal chapter in my life. In this conversation, I share about my journey - uprooting my life from England in 2013 when I [...]

Throughout the year I am often asked for help with business strategy by my coaching clients. Whether it’s the end of the year or six months in, having a clear plan and working to that plan will make your coaching business more successful. Why? Because if you don’t know where you’re going, then you don’t know what to focus on and [...]

Are you scared of getting clients? Think about it for a moment… Does the thought of getting someone to pay you money for coaching and then having to show up and work with them fill you with fear? Have you ever noticed that the very thing we want we're often afraid of doing - this is also true for your [...]

In the world of coaching, one thing is clear: it's all about connection. Building strong, authentic relationships with your clients is at the core of your success. But have you ever considered how your Enneagram type and coaching style can play a pivotal role in attracting clients who truly resonate with you? At CoachBrilliant, we believe that understanding your Enneagram [...]

You instinctively know when you’re in the presence of an authentic person. You gravitate towards them because they feel real. There’s a warmth and openness that makes this person engaging. Most of us want to be authentic in our lives, have a sense of who we are, and feel confident enough to share it. Our conditioning makes us hesitant to [...]

If you had the opportunity to go deep into the woods to reconnect with Nature, lose all concept of time, and co-exist among wild Black Bears for a few days and nights would you do it? This is EXACTLY what I did recently! As you read this you might be asking yourself… But aren’t black bears aggressive? Isn’t that dangerous? [...]

This question may seem a little strange… After all, what equips coaches to work with clients are their natural gifts for helping others. Most coaches are relational, friendly, and approachable. Surely that’s important for building rapport and creating a great relationship? So what do I mean by being too nice? Nice is often the word clients use to describe a former [...]

Being a coach is no small undertaking - we want the best results for our clients. To achieve this you want to be the very best you can be. Helping your clients to get results is two-fold and this is the key to any thriving coaching practice. Successful coaches want their clients to get better results for two reasons: You [...]

This is a brilliant coaching question. One that a new client presented to me recently. She’d been working her ass off (her words 🙂) in her business to try and make more money, but everything she’d tried, wasn’t working. She was exhausted and anxious and she came to me for some coaching to change this… Intellectually, she was doing all [...]

Do you sometimes have clients who prefer to prepare to work rather than wanting to do the work? Whether you are on the receiving end or giving end of coaching, the truth is that if you want to create any change in your life you can’t eliminate DOING the work that is needed (including the inner work). Let me explain… [...]

One of my coaching clients recently asked me about a Facebook post she’d seen from a business coach discouraging people from taking certified programs, as you don’t need them… She was also recommended not to use her certifications in her marketing because no one cares about them. My client was confused… Surely not every certification or accreditation I want to complete [...]

A client recently came to a coaching session with the question - Can we explore what to do with the rest of my life? This is such a GREAT question! Many of us find ourselves asking this at some point during our lives. While this question is HUGE, I see it as the perfect opportunity to go deeper inside, because this [...]

Have you ever had a situation where you’ve had good intentions but the other person misunderstood you? Or perhaps you’ve totally misread someone else because you were judging them by their actions? This happened to one of my coach clients recently. We set an intention and move forward toward it... Our motivations drive our behavior. The challenge is that without knowing [...]

Have you ever put off an important task and found yourself busy doing something else? After returning from a month in the UK, I set my intention to write marketing copy for my Professional Coaching Program Certification launch for an hour each day. Every day, something else would take priority. As it’s been so cold this winter, I started putting out [...]

Many of us are taught at an early age to repress our emotions. Showing emotions like anger, frustration, fear, and sadness are seen as weaknesses, so we quickly learn that they are unacceptable and stuff them down. As we grow our elders teach us that our feelings are not to be trusted and there is definitely no place for feelings [...]

Have you ever set a goal for a desired outcome such as: getting fit, or learning a new skill? You jump straight in and join a gym or sign up for that online program. For the first month or so, you are driven by your motivation to meet your goal. You show up to work on your new passion every single [...]